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"BELIEVE NOTHING BASED MERELY ON TRADITION, SCRIPTURE, OR FAITH IN A
TEACHER"
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July, 2005
Is Krishna a
Con?
by Charles Carreon
July, 2005
I've wanted to post this for a long time, the Texas
RICO lawsuit filed by Windle Turley, Texas lawyer, on behalf of The
Children of ISKCON. I never could remember how to spell that name,
but now my recollection is solid, since I realize it's an acronym
for "Is Krishna a Con?"
Ya know, I'm not sure how toxic religion has to be
before people stop treating it like a harmless thing. Meth is the
plague du jour; however, religion is the root of all our problems.
Check this complaint out.
The core allegations are in these first two files,
which are each just three typewritten pages long. You'll get the
gist of the filth from that.
If you want the whole thing, it's 42 pages, so have
broadband or be prepared to wait. But it's well-written, and
probably 98% true. As my momma would say, "It'll curl your teeth."
What amazes me about ISKCON is the brazenness with
which these people operated, according to the complaint, from 1972
through 1990, creating a system in which chidren were subject to
routine sexual abuse in an environment created for, and managed by,
a gang of dedicated pedophiles. This is the quotation of the acts of
abuse, taken directly from the complaint.
B. ABUSE INFLICTED
3. Sexual abuse including rape, oral sex,
intercourse with children, sexual fondling of children, and
masturbation with children
4. Physical beatings of children with boards,
branches, clubs, and poles.
5. Physical beatings by adult teachers and school
leaders with fists to the head and stomach.
6. Kicking the children into submission.
7. Children were in some instances made to walk
great distances in bitter cold, including snow and rain, without
jackets, coats, or shoes.
8. Children were often forced to sleep on cold
floors and in unheated rooms.
9. Children were frequently deprived entirely of
medical care or provided such inadequate medical care as to suffer
long-term and, in some instances, permanent injury. The medical
conditions for which children were not treated included malaria,
hepatitis, yellow fever, teeth being knocked out, broken facial
bones, and broken bones in their hands, often inflicted as they
attempted to shield themselves from beatings.
10. Children were sometimes kept in filthy
conditions. In at least one instance, a local group utilized what
had recently been a cattle or horse barn for a nursery.
11. In almost every school the children were kept
in severely overcrowded conditions, often forced to sleep shoulder
to shoulder on the floor or in small rooms in three-high bunks
with 10 or 12 children to each tiny room.
12. The children were physically abused by being
awakened every day in the early morning hours (generally at 4:00
a.m.) and subjected to a cold shower, after which they were taken,
without any breakfast, to a daily religious service. At some
schools, the children were forced to walk great distances in the
dark to attend the service, and often in cold or rainy conditions,
clothed only in their thin gown-like "dohti."
13. The children were not provided bathroom tissue,
but instead were expected to wipe themselves with their fingers,
after which they would dip their fingers into a bowl of water.
14. As punishment for not cleaning themselves
thoroughly, children were scrubbed with steel wool until their
skin was raw and sometimes bleeding.
15. Children were abused when they were forced to
sleep on their wet blankets or in tubs as punishment if they wet
their bedding.
16. Some children were forced to wear their soiled
underclothes on their heads for long periods of time because they
had wet themselves.
17. Children were often forced to go without food
entirely, either because there was none, or as punishment when
food was provided, it was always inadequate for a growing child's
diet.
18. The inadequate food that was provided was often
prepared in unsanitary conditions, was of very poor quality and so
unpleasant that even hungry children frequently could not eat it
In at least one school the children learned as a matter of routine
to remove insects from their food before eating it.
19. Each child was expected to eat what they were
provided. If they did not do so, their saved portion was kept on
their plates until the next meal when it was served again. This
process often continued until the cold food -- even moldy and
insect-infested - was swallowed.
20. In some schools, children were forced to lick
up their vomit from any foul food they may have thrown up.
21. At New Vrindavan, three young boys, about six
or seven years of age, who worked in the kitchen, took some food
to their hungry friends. They were caught and punished by being
gagged, having bags placed over their heads, and being put in a
small room for several days with only a bucket for their waste and
no food or water. One of the same boys was later slammed by a
teacher into a marble wall, resulting in a loss of some teeth and
fractured facial bones.
22. Children were controlled by various threats to
hurt or kill them and by punishments. Young children, strictly
limited to a vegetarian diet, were continually terrorized when
told that non-Krishnas were meat-eaters, that they ate each other,
and that the children, if given to or taken by the meat-eaters,
would themselves be eaten.
23. Children often saw rats in their rooms and
schools. Some children (such as those at the school in Dallas)
were told the rats lived in a particular old closet, and the child
would be, and often was, placed in the closet if they didn't do as
told.
24. One form of punishment included forcing little
children to stand on a crate for long periods of time in a
darkened closet "so the rats would not eat them."
25. Very young children were in fact placed in
those dark and locked closets and left afraid and crying for hours
at a time. They were locked overnight in dark cellars with dirt
floors. One young child was made to sleep alone in the loft of a
cold barn for many nights.
26. sometimes the children were sent by their
superiors to massage and bathe the religious gurus and then drink
their now ''blessed bath water."
27. In some cases, children were stuffed into trash
barrels for periods of two to three days, with the lid on, as
punishment for relatively trivial "sins."
28. Children were almost universally told that if
they disclosed their condition or complained to their parents or
others, they would be severely punished when complaints were made,
the children were publicly and often severely beaten or subjected
to other forms of punishment.
29. Girls, as young as 12 or 13 years, were
frequently "given" or "promised" to an older male in the movement.
Although their marriages were generally not sexually consummated
until the child was at least 16 or 17 years old, the little girls
were terrorized by the threats, and often reality, of being given
away by their leaders to become engaged to many "strange old men."
30. Children were often forced to lie awake in
their beds or sleeping bags and listen as their little friends
were sexually molested by teachers and other leaders.
31. The children were emotionally abused by
subjecting them to near-total parental and societal isolation. In
an effort to totally control their minds, the children were, in
most cases, separated and isolated from their parents and were not
allowed to have regular contact with their parents. Personal
visits, correspondence, and telephone calls were either forbidden
or discouraged. Gifts, particularly of food, were intercepted. For
example, one young boy felt abandoned by his parents, and had no
contact with his family for more than a year. He later learned the
one small package of cookies sent by his mother was intercepted
and kept from him.
32. Children were frequently moved to different
schools in different states without the consent (or, sometimes,
knowledge) of parents. Some children were hidden from parents.
Some boys were shipped out of the country to ISKCON schools in
India. In at least some cases, after the parents discovered their
child's whereabouts and made arrangements for them to come home,
their plane tickets were intercepted, and torn up in front of the
children. Then, these children were punished for their parents'
attempt to bring them home.
33. Even though the children were given by their
parents to ISKCON to educate, except for the reading of their
"Vedic scriptures," the children received little or no education.
34. Because of near-total isolation from the
outside world and lack of education, the children who remained
within the ISKCON schools for extended periods of time were
totally unequipped to enter outside society. They have experienced
extreme difficulty in earning a living, entering and maintaining
relationships, including marriage, and in adapting to the laws and
regulations of society. Many are in need of extended psychological
and/or vocational training, rehabilitation, and medical care.
35. Plaintiffs, like almost all of the children who
remained within ISKCON schools for any period of time, were forced
to work many hours a day, at ages below the applicable minimum age
requirements of the state child labor laws in which the schools
were located. Compounding this illegal work program put in place
by the Defendants in the gurukulas is the fact that none of the
Plaintiffs was ever paid for their many hours of labor. Thus, not
only were Plaintiffs forced to work by Defendants in violation of
applicable child labor laws, but were forced to do so without any
compensation whatsoever, robbing them of the value of their work.
36. The widespread use of child labor was a
necessary part of the Defendants' scheme. Because Defendants fail
to provide adequate staffing to prepare meals, cook, wash dishes
and clothes, and clean the facilities and, in some instances,
operate the farms, Defendants utilized the children to perform a
large portion of these services. This practice fired the
children's parents to continue to raise money for ISKCON and to
provide other services to the ISKCON enterprise.
37. The founder of the institution, Prabhupada, was
informed in 1972, at a time when he totally controlled the
institution, that extensive physical and sexual abuse of minor
ISKCON children was occurring, but he concealed the wrongdoing
from the public, parents and all but a handful of close advisors.
38. Despite having been alerted to the physical,
emotional, mental and sexual abuse of children in its gurukula
boarding schools and other schools as early as the 1970s, ISKCON
and the other Defendants conspired to suppress any public
disclosure, or disclosure to gurukula children's parents, of the
pattern and practice of rampant abuse and theft at its gurukulas.
ISKCON fraudulently concealed this information for decades,
allowing the offending gurukula teachers and supervisors continued
access to children for their sexual gratification and to subject
them to physical, emotional and mental abuse. Defendants also
endeavored to dissuade and discourage parents of gurukula children
from visiting the schools. This was done at least in part to
preserve the secrecy surrounding the abuse of and theft from the
Krishna children.
38. ISKCON, by and through its GBC, knew that if it
did not conceal and keep secret the theft, sexual, physical, and
emotional abuse it had learned was taking place in many of its
schools, the very viability of the movement would be jeopardized.
ISKCON would face a large loss of students and their parents from
the movement and with that a large loss of funds and fundraisers.
The individual income of many members of the GBC would have been
adversely impacted. Its leaders would also have been subject to
criminal and civil sanctions. The GBC made conscious decisions to
conceal the fact that injury had been, and was continuing to be,
inflicted on minor boys and girls.
The operators of ISKCON used classic techniques of
child manipulation to control their victims, once they separated
them from their stupid parents, the low-IQ dregs of the psychedelic
revolution:
Children were almost universally told that if they
disclosed their condition or complained to their parents or
others, they would be severely punished when complaints were made,
the children were publicly and often severely beaten or subjected
to other forms of punishment.
Of course, I'm too harsh on those poor Krishnoids,
especially since I was one of the "Children of God," who ultimately
created a very similar, sexually-driven hell for their children.
There's a terrible similarity in the stories told by
the COG kids at http://www.movingon.org, and as recorded by Miriam
Williams in her brilliant book, "Heaven's Harlots," which Altruistic
World Online Library has kindly archived at this link: "Heaven's
Harlots: My Fifteen Years as a Sacred Prostitute in the Children of
God Cult."
How could people be such jerks to kids? How could
they use them as the repositories for their cowardly sexual
appetites? Why didn't they all have sex with each other, and leave
the kids alone? Why were they drawn to use a Blue Man as their
cover?
Because of near-total isolation from the outside
world and lack of education, the children who remained within the
ISKCON schools for extended periods of time were totally
unequipped to enter outside society. They have experienced extreme
difficulty in earning a living, entering and maintaining
relationships, including marriage, and in adapting to the laws and
regulations of society. Many are in need of extended psychological
and/or vocational training, rehabilitation, and medical care.
***
The founder of the institution, Prabhupada, was
informed in 1972, at a time when he totally controlled the
institution, that extensive physical and sexual abuse of minor
ISKCON children was occurring, but he concealed the wrongdoing
from the public, parents and all but a handful of close advisors.
***
ISKCON, by and through its GBC, knew that if it did
not conceal and keep secret the theft, sexual, physical, and
emotional abuse it had learned was taking place in many of its
schools, the very viability of the movement would be jeopardized.
ISKCON would face a large loss of students and their parents from
the movement and with that a large loss of funds and fundraisers.
The individual income of many members of the GBC would have been
adversely impacted. Its leaders would also have been subject to
criminal and civil sanctions. The GBC made conscious decisions to
conceal the fact that injury had been, and was continuing to be,
inflicted on minor boys and girls.
So it will be clear what kind of hideous
correspondence between ISKCON and the Children of God I am talking
about, I quote from the 2nd Generation COG website:
You, who call yourselves “the children of God” and
“The Family of love”, have sacrificed, deprived and endangered
your children all in the name of “saving lost souls”. Did you ever
consider the safety, well being and happiness of your own children
when you decided to live communally and knowingly allow your
children to be in the same household as child molesters and
rapists? Sure, the molesters and rapists can be forgiven and
perhaps change their names several times to demonstrate that they
have “changed” and “repented”. However, these molesters and
rapists have never changed and are still the sick people they were
10 names ago. As much as you pray for them and have them “confess
their sins,” they continue to roam your homes and prey on your
children and your young teens.
I would like to ask you, how are you able to place
more value in the life of the “lost souls” then in the life of
your own children? What gives you the right to place more value
over one life than over another?
I know you believe that you are the “chosen ones”
or “the children of god” however, it is one thing to join a cult
when you are an adult but it is quite another to force your
children to conform to your life style and beliefs. We have
observed, over the years, that when we didn’t conform to your
standard of living you prayed against us and against our
happiness. You have condemned the outsiders or “systemites” as you
call them for trying to force you into their mold and their
lifestyles (over 30 years ago) and yet you turn around and do the
same thing to your own children except you have deprived your
children of a descent education and you have allowed for their
lives to be jeopardy and the worst part about this is that you
justify your actions by professing that you are doing this all in
“the name of God”.
Many of your own children are now scared
emotionally, psychologically and physically because of what you
call “the family of love”, we cannot get back those years of
innocence because of your decision to join “the family”. You have
also tried to make your children so dependant on you by keeping
them in seclusion from the outside world, it was your hope that we
would never survive the “real world” if you kept us in seclusion
for long enough and brainwashed us with your propaganda. But we
survived and we have succeeded in living a positive and productive
life in the “real world” or “the system” (as you call it) despite
the disadvantages many of us were faced with when we first left.
Some of us may not have made the best decisions but
they are our own and we are proud to now have the freedom of
expression without restraint or reproach.
--Prisma
http://www.movingon.org/article.asp?sID=1&Cat=31&ID=968
***
Statement of Mr. John LaMattery (Sr) former
first-generation member of The Family International (aka. The
Children of God) in support of the second-generations’ fight to
expose the abuses of the quasi-Christian church of The Family
International.
To all past and current first-generation members of
The Family International; to ALL our second-generation young
people; to the media and; most of all to my own dear children.
My name is John LaMattery. I first joined the
Children of God in 1973 and was a full-time member until 1978. I
then re-joined in 1985 under its new-name: The Family. I left
full-time membership in 1994.
My first son, John LaMattery(Jr), is now standing
up to expose the abuses that occurred to many of the children of
this group. I would like to say, first of all, how proud I am of
my son. It is costing him dearly to make this stand: in finances
and health. He is a fine young man who loves his fellowman and has
always dealt honestly and truthfully with others. It is true that
he suffered sexual abuse as a 9 year old. I would like to say that
I was aware of this and failed to intervene on his behalf. I am
ashamed that I failed my son and that I did not take steps to
protect him from this. In fact, I sanctioned the incident that he
refers to in news accounts. I was terribly mistaken in my
judgment. I failed to guard him and to keep him out of harms way.
For this I am truly sorry. I will not make any excuses for this
failure. It was wrong and it is something that I will have to
carry to my grave as a terrible mistake made in my life. As King
David wrote: “my sin is ever before me.”
Two of my 6 daughters also suffered sexual abuse at
the hands of Family members. I was not aware of these until years
later but it still remains that because I kept my children in this
organization I, whether knowingly or unknowingly, exposed them to
an environment which allowed such things to occur. I regret that
this happened to them. By placing my children into harms way I
must take full responsibility for the results of this in their
lives today.
All my children suffered some form of abuse. Not
all necessarily sexual. There were other abuses such as
psychological which were degrading to their character or
frightening to their young minds and spirits. They were deprived
of a proper education, asked to go out on the streets and
door-to-door nearly daily to raise funds for our living. They were
separated from each other and made to live in locations away from
their natural family. In essence their family unit was virtually
destroyed while at the same time they were made to feel guilty for
missing their brothers and sisters, father and mother. This is
such a sad and regretful set of circumstances.
These events in my children’s lives are a sad blot
on their childhood memories. I regret that as a parent I failed to
provide them with the love and care, the oversight and proper
attention that are expected of any loving and concerned parent. I
hope that in some way they will find complete healing and that the
hurt and pain which I allowed into their lives will some day fully
heal.
I would also like to say I am very sorry to all the
children in The Family whether you ever suffered sexual abuse or
not. I am sorry that I didn’t fight for your rights and fight
against the terrible insidious doctrine of ‘the law of love’, a
doctrine which was twisted by many of my generation to give
license to abuse you in one form or another. It is a doctrine
which, through my recent conversations with some current members,
is still strongly adhered to and professed to be a true and pure
doctrine of The Family International. I do believe that Jesus
Christ came to this earth to bring His pure and sacred new law: to
love God and to love our neighbors as ourselves. But The Family
has, in my opinion and judging by their fruits, grossly
misinterpreted it and misused it. This is a sad testimony to the
many honest and good people who originally joined this Christian
movement. Some got out when they saw things were going wrong. I,
regretfully, did not.
Through much prodding by my children and family I
am now standing up to voice my condemnation of The Family
International. Not the poor and blind souls of the average member,
for they are but sheep, but I stand to condemn specifically Karen
Zerby (aka Maria) and her hubris of continuing to promote, oh so
subtlety, her long held doctrine of the ‘law of love’ which
continues to this very day to cause widespread justification for
the abuses of the past. It is this doctrine in particular that I
believe has created a fundamental mindset which prevents
first-generation adults to admit to any wrong doing concerning
inappropriate behavior between adults and children in the past. It
is, I believe, the mindset which caused Angela Smith (Sue) to
continue to question what she had done wrong to Ricky as he was
slitting her throat. It is the mindset that is causing Ricky’s own
mother and leader of The Family to place the blame for the tragic
fruit of her own body on so-called apostates instead of squarely
on her own shoulders and the shoulders of her idol namely David
Berg, founder of The Children of God.
There is no excuse for what I have caused my
children to suffer. I take no refuge in the fact that I was a
member of this group and believed in this doctrine of the ‘law of
love’ as they put it. I voluntarily gave my mind, heart and soul
to follow what was a lie and a deceptive doctrine of love. It was
not the true love of God and I believe that we as parents must
look honestly in the face of the children that we have produced
and are still producing and say to ourselves “where did I go
wrong?”
I call on all FIRST-GENERATION current and former
members of The Family International to now follow me in supporting
our children as they raise their voices to cry out against the
lies and the falsehoods that they suffered under. I call on my
generation to step forward and come out of the shadows and be
counted. Perhaps you never personally witnessed the sexual abuse
that many have suffered. But, I pled with you now to look deep
into your heart and deep into God’s Holy Word and honestly admit
that what David Berg preached and what Maria has continued to
preach namely, that “whatever is done in love is right in the
sight of God” was twisted and wrestled by them and thus has borne
the terrible fruit of suicide and murder in their own home. Do not
allow them to pass this blame any longer on to others. Do not, I
beg you, allow them to run from the light of the truth of their
actions. Do not allow them to continue to twist the truth to
support their interpretation of God’s Word.
Our children need our full support now. They need
to know that we love them even if it means a total destruction of
our own livelihoods, the loss of friends and reputation. Fail not
to remember that “greater love hath no man than this, that a man
lay down his life for his friends.” If Christ asked us to do that
for our friends then, I ask you, what would He expect us to give
to save our children?
My son has said “it’s a war now between ourselves
and our parents”. Let us unite with our children and turn this war
towards those who share in our guilt but who continue to hide in
the shadows and refuse to take account for their participation in
following this false doctrine of love which reaped sorrow and pain
in the lives of so many of our children. Stand up and make your
voice clear that the “love” so preached was tainted by the
lascivious ranting of a false prophet and was and still is
supported by pride and arrogance, lies and deceptions in the
person of Maria. We are all truly guilty of allowing this into our
lives for whatever reason. We all share in this to some degree.
Some more than others but as all Nazis’ shared in some part the
blame for allowing Hitler to rise so we all share in our sin of
not resisting the evil, not fighting the injustices and in not
standing by the side of our children in their desperate hour of
need. And let us remember what the Psalmist wrote in the 15th
Psalm: “Lord, who shall abide in thy tabernacle? Who shall dwell
in thy holy hill? He that walketh uprightly, and worketh
righteousness, and speaketh the truth in his heart. In whose eyes
a vile person is contemned; but he honoureth them that fear the
Lord. He that sweareth to his own hurt, and changeth not.”
To the first generation I finally say, "May God
help each of us, may He have mercy on our souls and may we pray
that our children will in time forgive us."
And to you of the second generation I sadly say,
"I'm sorry for failing you and for letting you down. I hope that
many will now stand up to support you in your fight."
Posted: Thu Mar 24, 2005 5:50 pm Post subject:
Statement of Mr. John LaMattery (Sr)
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